Spirits Creative Way Of Showing Validation
At my recent event in New York City, I had a theme of male spirits–fathers in particular–coming forward and expressing their deep apologies and regrets about the ways in which they failed to show up for their living loved ones. These spirits also recognized how proud they were of their loved ones for living their lives differently, and in many cases better, learning from generations past and healing their family legacies, both forwards and backward in time.
There was also a theme of special coins showing up as signs from these male spirits, indicating their eternal presence still with them and a reminder to stay in faith and trust for the path they are on. The reason spirits typically choose coins as a sign, in addition to potentially reminding you of significant coins they once had in life, is because it has "in God, we trust" imprinted on many of them.
One of the final readings of the night was a spirit named William, who took his life a few years ago. He came through commending his wife on being so brave as she courageously found a way to forgive him and the situation while also learning the soul lessons intended for her as a result. I then asked why I was seeing something like a small blanket or piece of clothing folded up–something that was brought along by someone tonight. She excitedly grabbed her purse and pulled out William's white handkerchief that he always carried, which she said she brought with her specifically for him to make mention of! It made me smile, knowing it was a parallel message for me from my dad in spirit, as white "hankies" were one of his old school, but everyday items, that I have as a keepsake. It was a powerful group, like so many. I felt overwhelming gratitude for the moment and for the synchronicity of the group. Little did I know that, just because the evening of readings came to an end, it was far from over!
The next morning on my flight back to Denver, I ended up sitting next to a nice gentleman who greeted me with a smile. While we didn't talk for the first hour or so of the flight, I could naturally feel his anxious energy, because that's what I do as an empath and intuitive! I got up to use the restroom and on the floor were 2 shiny coins. I laughed, knowing it was a continuation of the group reading the night before, and it felt like my dad jumping in yet again, on the parallel message, as coins are one of my signs from him to stay in trust.
As I walked back to my seat, my head was back in the group, thinking about all the dads and husbands that came through, clearly along with my own dad, expressing their sincere apologies, love, and gratitude for us still here in body. When I sat down, the man leaned over and politely said, "Sorry to bother you, but I have to ask, are you Rebecca Rosen?" He then went on to introduce himself (his name was Tom) and said that he was sitting behind me on our flight out to NY just a few days prior, but wasn't totally sure it was me. He didn't mention anything then because he didn't want to bother me, but the fact that, as fate would have it, he ended up in the middle seat right next to me on the way back made it pretty obvious to him that he needed to say something. He then went on to share that he was a client of mine, and I did a reading for him and his wife 8 years ago that completely changed his life! He thanked me for that, along with the healing work I do for others, and encouraged me to keep up the good work.
I was stunned and yet smiled at the synchronicity of it all. I then said, "Let me guess, your dad passed and he came through to tell you how sorry he was for not showing up for you in life, but how very proud he is of you now?" He said, "Wow, yes, but not exactly. At the time of the reading, my paternal grandfather came through saying all of that about my dad, who was still living at the time, which was spot on and so comforting to hear. However, my dad has since passed away." I then heard more about his reading and how the messages that came through impacted him and his family, still offering him so much comfort and healing all these years later. I then asked if it was okay if I tuned in to his "team spirit" and see if there was anything he needed to know, as it was definitely not a coincidence that we were seated side by side for over 3 hours! From there, I asked, "Who is William?" He didn't know. I then said, "Your dad is here, along with this William and a Robert or Bob." He then confirmed that Bob was his dad's brother whom he was very close to. I ended up downloading messages for a good 20 minutes or so around everything his grandfather had shared years ago. His father, like a broken record of all the spirits the night before, expressed sincere apologies, acknowledgment, and love.
It was seriously a continuation of the group, which I shared with him. Spirit doesn't know time and space, so the energy of the evening continues on into the hours and days after. I asked if there was any last thing his dad wanted to share. I felt guided to ask about something he carries with him that reminds him of his dad–something that is folded up, perhaps in his wallet or briefcase. I then heard "William" again and saw a flash of the white handkerchief from the group in my mind's eye. Before I could get the words out of what exactly I was seeing, he volunteered, "Oh my god. Directly above your head in the overhead bin, in my bag, is my dad's white handkerchief! I've kept it in there since the day he died as a reminder of his presence with me." Aha! That's when I connected the dots that "William" was the spirit (unrelated to Tom) helping to bring through Tom's dad, with a parallel sign of the white handkerchief!
Needless to say, we were both in awe of the serendipity of that flight, and spirit's creative way of communicating, appreciating, and validating not only Tom but myself as well.